What’s your « Perfect Day » ?
As an experiment for one of the chapters in my upcoming book, I’m trying to define what a « perfect day » would look like.
I’m doing this from a very different perspective than most personal development courses do offer on the topic.
Most courses I’ve attended have you do an « ideal day » exercise where you describe on paper a perfect life from waking up to going to bed :
at what time you wake up, where you are, what the house looks like, who you’re with, what you say, etc etc.
at what time you wake up, where you are, what the house looks like, who you’re with, what you say, etc etc.
It’s an interesting thought experiment but it’s more of a « Law of Attraction »/passive life design exercise.
My theory is that a « perfect day » is not made from a « perfect scenario » played out from sunrise to sunset – but rather from a series of (mostly short, mostly mundane) rituals that, if performed over weeks, months, or years, produce a fantastic quality of life.
I also believe that most of those rituals/habits can be performed at any point in the day – not in a fixed scenario, which allows for a very flexible Perfect Day, as long as there’s a little bit of planning around obstacles, like flying, attending conferences, etc.
(e.g. « If i could dance 6 minutes (two songs) every single day of my life, I can’t imagine how much joy and happiness that would add to my quality of life. »)
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So here’s the current list I’m striving to achieve every day :
- Sleep at least 8 hours
- Meditate before getting up – 20 min
- Make my bed
- Bulletproof coffee
- Abs 10 min.
- Sprint n.1 work : 50min
- Dancing 3 min.
- Sprint n.2 work : 50min
- Dancing 3 min.
- green juice
- Act of kindness to a stranger
- Artistic expression (15 min) , design or guitar
- Planning surprise or artistic project (5 min)
- Walking in the open 5 min
- Moment shared with my wife 45 min.
- Muscu or 25 min HIIT
- Keep a Journal 5 min.
- Expressing gratitude to someone / friend or family call 15 min.
- Read 15 min.
- Meditate 20 minutes . at bedtime